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5 Best sex tips by real couples

5 Best sex tips by real couples

Greetings, Reddish Life readers! We are Jennifer and Jay, founders of We are here to aggregate the best sex tips from real couples and bring you more joy and amusement into your sex life.  You hated general tips like: be yourself, love your body, etc. So we initiated this blog to get personal and specific tips from couples like us. If you are reading this and have a great tip you crave to share, let us know here.

1. Making DIY Spreader bar under 6$ by Josh & Tina

  1. Cut the pole and Tubex for around 60 cm (23.6 inches). Or any size that is comfortable for you. 
  2. Start to screw eyelets to the top and bottom of the pole. Be sure you have these ones, so you do not need to drill holes. A screwdriver can help you like a handle when turning the eyelets.
  3. Screw the other two eyelets in the middle of the pole. 
  4. Tear or cut the Tubex along its entire length
  5. Put Tubex on the pole
  6. Wrap the spreader bar with black tape along its entire length.
  7. Have fun!

Our opinion 

I must say, Jay, is not a handyman, but when I read him this tip and told him that I really need this in our bedroom. He agreed. The next day he visited the hardware store and after a 5,76 $ purchase he was ready to go. And in 20 minutes it was done. I must admit, seeing Jay do some handwork makes me really wet, sadly it’s not that usual. Then we try it and I must say. With the Hitachi wand, this is really something! Or you can practice it while pussy spanking. Or both, it’s up to the Dom. 

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2. Play erotic board games by Monique & Jeremy

You need to buy a board game that you both like. There are many manufacturers, but the punchline is always similar. You deal with tasks that arouse both of you. Like kissing in special places, stroking different parts of your partner’s body or even have different forms of sex. It’s not always the cheapest investment, but I’m sure you won’t regret it. You can play the game quite often because of some of the tasks you are going to want to repeat again and again.

Our opinion 

We haven’t purchased any kind of these games yet, but we tried to make our regular games sexier. For instance, we played UNO and the one who had lost must fulfill the wish of the other. First, we started with brief nudity and then we sharpened our tasks. 

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3. Tickling by paintbrush by us

Try to tickle your partner’s body with the paintbrush. I suggest you buy a whole lot of paintbrushes so you can try what you like the most. But if you don’t want to spend a lot of money you can try it on your forehand and see what will drive you crazy like me.  

Note: Be aware of really hard paintbrushes it doesn’t feel really great on softer parts of your body.

Vanilla style: You can do it like we did the first time. I like it on my back and neck as a form of foreplay. But I am sure that you can find the best spot for you. The searching is also part of the fun.

BDSM style: If you want to spice things up a little bit as we did last Friday. I highly suggest you get tied up and let your lover tease you as long as he/she deems it appropriate.

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4. Dirty maid games at the hotel by Kaira & Glenn

1) Book a nice hotel room

2) Buy a sexy maid outfit

3) Choose your perfect scenario

It’s only about your imagination, but we would like to share our best with you. And tell you why we love it. 


He is getting caught

G: It feels so dirty to be caught by someone you don’t even know. I feel like a bad boy who needs to be punished. 

K: I am a bit of a voyeur, so I like to watch for a while. Then I am so lascivious and can’t wait a single minute to blow his beautiful dick. 


She is getting caught

K: I like to play it like: I saw you in the lobby and then I must touch your shirts and smell it. Then he is a bit angry and I had to be punished for such a rule breaker.  

G: What the hell is she doing with my stuff? Why she rubs my shirts on her naked body? Her naked beautiful body. I must show her how to treat VIP guests. 


He is a Hotel manager and she is the newcomer

G: Oh God. Why did we hire her. She just can’t do her job right. If she wasn’t that hot I would fire her right now. 

K: Sir, please don’t fire me. I really need this job. I can do everything for you. And by everything, I mean EVERYTHING. Please spank me so I remember how to make a bed correctly.  


Our opinion: 

We were absolutely astonished by this one. After reading this I instantly opened my favorite sex shop and order one costume. The next day we played that I am a new housekeeper but I am more than the worst in my work. Mr. Jay was so upset with my work. I must have done my best to keep this work. 

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5. Read erotic books by Michelle & Ray

Find out some interesting erotic book, order it and then:

1) You can read it just by yourself and trust me it is much better than porn. 

2) Try to read it together especially if you find out your spouse’s voice sexy as much as I do. Also when it is read by someone else you have free hands. 


Our opinion: 

I found out Lady Fuckingham in our local bookstore. We are almost at the end but we can’t read more than 5 pages at once. Yeah, it’s that good and sexy. 

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If you are reading this and have a great tip you crave to share, let us know here.

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