Tips For Perfect Blowjob To Blow Your Partner!

Want to know how to give the perfect blowjob? Our guide features the best blowjob tips for great oral that will blow his mind.

Blowjobs or oral sex is sexual contact between the mouth and the genitals or anus; fellatio, cunnilingus, or anilingus.

One of the benefits of blowjobs/oral sex is that it can help to increase relationship satisfaction. This can minimize the risk of your partner’s infidelity by increasing their relationship satisfaction. That’s not to say that giving your partner a blowjob everyday or multiple times a day will stop them from cheating as cheating is more than just physical.

Does Semen has antidepressant properties?

Say what! Based on an article published by Michael Chastleman MA, when vaginas were exposed to semen they showed significantly better moods, meaning fewer depressive symptoms and fewer bouts of depression. As someone that experiences depression and anxiety, performing for your partner can give you a euphoric feeling. Your mood increases, heart rate increases which increases blood flow, and can give you a sense of satisfaction that you are good at something and makes your partner happy.

Another benefit of blowjobs: it decreases your level of stress. When you orgasm, your brain releases Oxytocin and Endorphins, which are naturally acting pain killers. You can do this with your partner or yourself, whatever your preference is. Maybe after a long day, you find some alone time, sit back and relax, letting your hands explore your body. Self-exploration is the first step in understanding what you like and don’t like.

Three more reasons why men love blowjobs: they feel accepted, love from their partner, and they feel respected. It may sound strange that 70% of men would rather feel respected than loved, if given the choice.

Best positions for blowjobs!

There are 8 great positions for blowjobs:

  1. The Standard
  2. The Pivot
  3. 69’ing
  4. King’s Chair
  5. Standing Service
  6. Doggy Style
  7. The Lie Back
  8. The Lazy Pivot

Check out all the 8 sexiest positions with better description of each position, especially if you’re a newbie to blowjobs.

Facts to consider during blowjob

Although blowjobs are exciting, there are a few mistakes that can go wrong.

  1. Lack of energy- pretty self explanatory, you should enjoy doing it.
  2. Lack of pressure- not using your mouth or hands to the full extent making him feel unsatisfied.
  3. Using teeth- some men like it and some don’t. Make sure you have a discussion before about whether your partner likes it. You wouldn’t want him using your teeth down there on you, would you?
  4. Ignoring the balls- yes those dangly things that can sometimes get in the way. I always consider the cock to be the king and the balls the princes. You have to massage the prince before you get a hold of the king. Also it can increase sperm production, especially if you’re trying to get pregnant.
  5. Being too boring/predictable- spice things up each time. Sometimes we can get into the same mundane routine each time. If your man is getting the same old, same old, he may reach out to find someone that can give him something more exciting.
  6. Diving in too fast- If you attack your man as soon as he walks in from work, start stroking him and putting him in your mouth, it can feel familiar and unceremonious. Most men are into foreplay so take the slower approach and tease him, show him how much you want him, and who knows, maybe he’ll return the favor.

Is your partner a new father?

Here are some reasons to help both of you through the postpartum experience. As a mother who’s had three kids, postpartum is the hardest part of the recovery. I had two children vaginally and one via c-section. Depending on the recovery, depends on how sexually aroused I felt. If I was hurting down there and sex is too painful, touching is important, especially when you feel disgusted and unattractive after birthing a child. Some women are ready for some physical action as soon as they get home and some take weeks, even months to feel in the mood. Even if you’re not in the mood, making your partner feel loved and desirable assures him that although you’ve had a child, he is still a priority.

  1. He feels connected- most men respond to touch and it can make him feel important.
  2. He remains satisfied- pleasure is pleasure, no matter how small the act.
  3. He finds joy in receiving an orgasm- remember orgasms release endorphins and endorphins make you happy.
  4. He becomes a better parenting partner- especially during those 2 AM feedings or diaper duty.
  5. He finds his confidence in the relationship- meaning no sex or intimacy can make him feel unwanted or unloved.

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