The scandalous erotic bestseller “50 shades of gray” not only made women around the world believe that you can meet your prince, but also brought into fashion sexy bandages, liberated relationships in the style of sadomaso and, of course, sex toys.

If you’re in a relationship and looking to increase both pleasure and intimacy, consider experimenting with a sex toy created with partnered play in mind. Far from being a sign that your intimacy is somehow lacking, using pleasure products with your partner shows that you’re open to exploration and adventure. Shopping for a toy together can even count as foreplay. Browse together online from your bed, or have an adventurous date at your local adult store.

Playing with others is fun, and love is cool. But if you’re single or coupled, remember that you can use these toys on your own as well. There are also options for all bodies, from cock rings to G-Spot and prostate stimulation, to clitoral pleasure. To help you and your boo come together, we’ve chosen a selection of our favorite couples toys. From cock rings that can be work on bio penises and strap-on dildos alike, to vibrators worn on your partner’s finger, to riding crops for those looking to explore BDSM, these toys cater to a range of preferences and budgets. We’ve also added a selection of vibrators worn inside the vagina that basically turn your vagina into a vibrator, for all parties to enjoy. You might just choose to stay in for your next date night.

Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace (Rose Gold)

1. Rose Gold Crave Vesper Necklace

Whether you’re looking to ~make a statement~ or are just the sort of person who needs the convenience of literally wearing your vibrator around your neck (we’re all that person sometimes, TBH), the Vesper has you covered. It’s designed to look like an actual piece of jewelry and fits in the palm of your hand. If you’re worried something that tiny won't be enough to get you going, this is one of the strongest clit vibes out there. Maybe it’s something about that metal-on-skin contact, or maybe it’s the three settings this little guy operates on, but it’s great for really strong clit orgasm. Get you a vibe that can do both (make you orgasm and double as a sleek piece of jewelry).